Hello there!
After nearly 3 decades identifying as a cis-het monogamous straight white dude, I’ve spent the last year or two starting to actually get to know and explore who I am and what I like. My wife and I recently made the jump into poly life, have been dating separately for a little while now and so far it’s been great- a lot has started to click into place for me and I get more and more clear with each day that this is absolutely the way I want to live my life.
That being said, I’m also keenly aware I’m super new to all of this! The only sexual partner I’ve ever had has been my wife. I’m looking for an experienced femme partner who can help gently introduce me to the kink world and help me actually find what I like and what I’m into. I’m open to trying most things, but honestly don’t know where to start, and don’t want me figuring myself out to be at the expense of a potential future partner.
Me: I’m 6’2” and currently about 290lbs and shrinking (gained about 100 lbs during the pandemic and have lost about 30-35 of it the last few months!). I’m a Hopeless Romantic™️ at heart, and very much into the sweet/sappy/romantic side of relationships.
You: An experienced/older femme-presenting kinky playmate who is willing to take me by the hand and lead me into this new world and be my partner in experimenting with new things to see what gets me going.
I’d like to get to know one another and build an emotional connection first through texting and a couple dates- just until we’re comfortable enough to move things to the bedroom. Someone who can host our fun experiments would be ideal, but isn’t necessary.
If any of this sounds like something you’re up for, please message me. I look forward to meeting and playing with you, and have a Happy New Year!
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