So back story, about 4 years ago I feel in love with a man who was just beginning his journey into polygamous relationships. He had a tendency to believe lying by omission was acceptable because to him it was to protect other’s feelings. Ultimately, this belief is what split us up because I felt like he was hiding things that crossed my boundaries. Fast forward to a couple days ago and I am still friends with my meta from that relationship. I recently found out what that they ended up breaking up because he started to lie to her as well. He seems to be caught up in a women who does not practice ethical polyamory or ENM, the same women he would lie to me about. Sadly, because of the lying and hiding of information, the relationship between the ex and I did not end on the best terms; but, what is even sadder is the relationship between my meta and him seemed to be very healthy. So, I hate to see him throw perfectly healthy relationships away for a women who manipulates her partners. I wish there was an opportunity for the relationship to mend itself enough that we could have a candid conversation. Even after years of us being separated, I still love him, probably always will. I just want to know he is in the best relationships, because he does deserve it. He was (past the lying) an amazing man.