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Anyone out there who was resistant to poly at first, but then eventually not only tolerated, but thrived in it?

Context: I’m dating a new partner who is poly. Logically I think poly makes sense, and there’s a part of me that wants it for myself. But emotionally it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. I’ve got emotional baggage and trauma that I’m working on with a professional, and I want to believe that in time I can be strong enough to do this and thrive. But the beginning is turning out to be quite hard as I’m having to unlearn everything I’ve been taught about love and romance my entire life.

I want to be able to do this and I want to be able to do it well. Not only for him, but for me too.

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