My husband came back last night from his date at his partners place. ( first time he was ever over there and I was alone at home ) This is still very new to us both and I have been seeming someone for 7 weeks. My husband has been seeing this women for 3 weeks now and I just don’t want him to even touch me now. He went to hold my hand today and I pulled back. Last night we tried to be intimate and I made him stop. He is respecting me and I am trying to share my thoughts and feelings with him. I just got such a bad feeling from it and I keep going through my head if I am scared or mad or jealous or angry and it’s like I’m not even sure how I am feeling or how to work on this. He is very open and happy with who I am seeing but I guess I’m having a hard time seeing him with someone and I know I need to work on this I just don’t know where to begin or even what to feel.