Hey long story short, my wife and I have discussed opening our relationship a little over a year now, without making any tea actions towards it until the last few weeks. My wife found a guy she really liked on tinder and hit it off and ended up having sex on the first date (with protection). I was a little overwhelmed with how quick she was moving with him but didn't really know how to tell her to slow down, and she was having so much fun I felt bad if I asked her to stop. She ended up bringing him over the next night and having sex with him and again, but this time things ended in him cumming inside her under the agreement that he would help pay for plan B.

She took the plan B and we talked about everything and my feelings about it all and everything slowed down and we thought we worked everything out. But now She's pregnant, and we're not sure who the dad is... And I don't know how to feel or react to everything... I love my wife, and she loves me, but I don't know if I can raise a strangers kid. I WANT too, but I feel like weird resentment because of how weird the whole situation felt to me.

I'm just lost.