A couple of weeks ago I posted about how one of my significant others took her own life. I got an overwhelming amount of support and kindness from this group. Last night something happened. My wife had been trying to get a hold of her father and mother so that we can get her death certificate to get off the lease as well as providing help to them.

This man is a control freak. He was in the army, a special forces operator, and has an assault record for people " disrespecting his partner ".

Her father, we will call D, went through her entire phone, all of her journals, and read through all of her therapy. He came to the conclusion that we were the only things wrong with her. He said to my wife "I am done texting with you about this." Then continue to say that he would remove us from the celebration of life if we were to attend. He said we have no connection to HIS family and that we have no right to be there. He continued with and these are his exact words, "there is a special place in hell for people like you. Rot in hell."

The day before she took her life, I had brought over some of her belongings, and they held her while she cried. She told me how her father had been pushing her and telling her that she could only feel positive because in her words "he says I have no right to feel the way I feel and that should just be happy. " She said she was upset with him and how much he was pushing her and that he didn't intend to see him for a long time.

She often talked about her suicidal ideations and was in therapy for it. She told me that day that I was a good person and she was happy that if anything happened to her, I'd take care of her best friend, because we were " good people. "

She'd often talk about her suicidal ideations and she was in therapy for it so I didn't think much of it. She was getting to help she needed, or so I thought.

Ultimately, my wife and I will get over not being able to attend the celebration of life with her fake family. She was our real family and we spent every day for the last year and a half taken care of her ( minus the 2 weeks She moved out). Uninviting us to the celebration of life is not a way to punish us, but rather it's a way of disrespecting her spirit in my eyes.

I am posting in this group because this is the most supportive group for this specific life-altering event.

Thank you all so much for listening to me and listen to my update. I truly appreciate each and every one of you that has sent me prayers, good vibes, good thoughts, and everything in between.

You have all been amazing to me and I feel like a part of this community despite not being poly anymore. If anybody has or is going through a similar event please message me and maybe we can make our own Reddit dedicated to just that.

Again thank you all so much, and bless your hearts.

Sincerely, Red 💚🖤💜