As some know it was as my first poly relationship. Never dated two people but ended up with a couple of ten years.

I don't argue much but I had two things come up, they wanted me there but I had no where to sleep, and they didn't wanna help out, eventually he did but no sway from her.

The something happened and it affects my kids, their 9 year old being taught to push back when pushed and using that to bully my 6/4/2 year olds.

I wanted to talk to him about yelling for us or asking them to stop not using violence... I'm wrong...

I don't want my girls around that mentality when he's twice their age and height, she doesn't see the problem so I'm bouncing.

Unfortunately, that means I lost him to.