My wife and I have been in an open marriage for almost a year now. One of the things we agreed upon was to keep it quiet among our friends.

Yesterday, after we upgraded our phones, I was setting hers up, and noticed all her text messages synchronizing. i just happen to catch the words "open marriage" in a few of them over the last month or so, telling close friends of our what we are doing, showing them pics of her guys, etc. One of the people she told was her sister.

By the tone of her texts, I think she may be doing this to "brag" or "feel good" she is able to get guys on the side or something. Or that she is "happy" she can escape the issues of her marriage.

Im extremely angry with this! Should I tell her i know?