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So I (22 F) hooked up with a couple (F25 & M32) two years ago and now I’m in a semi open relationship (M23) and I am only seeking women at this point. I was considering asking her if she would be comfortable hooking up just me and her. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or offend him. He previously said he was fine with it but that was a long time ago. I’m just curious and debating if I should reach out to her first or him to see if he would be comfortable with me asking her. I don’t want to cross boundaries, but I really would like to see her again ugh
Why would you reach out to him? She isn't a pet that gets loaned out.
Ask her.
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I'd feel disrespected if someone asked my partner instead of me. He'd tell them to ask me. I'd tell them to take a hike.