Struggling with this dilemma of continuing a romantic relationship (non monogamous) or either just leaving it in the past. To give a little pretext my ex romantic lover and I ended our relationship due to disagreeing conflict regarding the relationship status (monogamous vs non). I am now okay with things being non monogamous since you can’t really know when you’ll connect with someone else and after doing a little research in poly relationships that seems to be more of the relationship guidelines I want to incorporate in my romantic life. My ex partner has expressed interest in rekindling the old flame but has been aloof for a while now, and I don’t know if I should bring it up or wait for her call. Actions do speak louder than words, but she is also known to be exceptionally recluse, secluded and very much introverted. Any advice would go a long way and thanks for the time and effort put in:-)!