Hey guys i dont know how i can use onlinedating, getting almost none matches without becoming depressed almost immediately Have to add i am not attractive, dont know how to meet ppl for casual stuff irl and actually never had anything casual. In my relationship we are not looking for something emotionally involved. Please dont just say its harder for men, thats not giving me any confidence i ever will find someone else that is even remotely sexually interested in me. I hate to use incel rhetoric but i always feel like i get friendzoned. I dont know how to flirt or to show sexual interest and i cant really read any sexual signs from others, i always read it as kindness towards me