I want to start off by stating that I am my wife's biggest supporter in whatever decisions she makes.
I have a question for anyone that is willing to help us. A couple years ago my wife decided that she wanted to be a dancer. The fast life, drinking, drugs, and temptations got the best of her. We have since then worked through that and learned a lot about each other. We are currently figuring out if we are simply just swingers or are we poly? So now that we've worked through everything and grown she has been given the opportunity to be a faux drag queen, a burlesque dancer, and a gogo dancer. I trust my wife with all my heart, however my brain can't forget the past. I'm comfortable with her being a faux drag queen and a burlesque dancer but a piece of me is scared of the thought of gogo dancing.(it's a tip based gig where she will be required to interact with guests).Can anyone relate and give us helpful advice? We DO NOT need negative comments about doing "whatever makes you happy, fuck your spouse" we are looking for other couples stories and help.
Thank you in advance, Richard
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