I am a mostly monogamous person, and I have been dating a poly chick for a couple months now. I really enjoy spending time with her, but due to her being married, I only get to see her once a week, and I’ve only been able to stay the night when her husband is out of town. I don’t know if it’s insensitive to say but it scares me for the future knowing there isn’t much space to eventually see myself living with her. Not sure what to feel. Very happy with the relationship otherwise and this is by no means a deal breaker. Just wanted to ask about how valid or invalid these concerns are and if there’s anything to do to help without infringing on her other relationships.