My partner has recently really connected with a new partner. This new connection has become a more talking point for our relationship as well as her time. I have met her partner and get along well with him. We all get along well even together and can play games with and enjoy time with each other. I enjoy seeing them interact with each other and watch the bond that is growing between them.

Here is where my question lies. I know that both me and my meta being different things to my partner, but how do I learn to not compare myself to what he brings her? Yes this might be jealousy and I am working through some of that, but I can’t help but think that I am deficient in some way.

Part of this might be that I have not made any connections with others and sometimes feel lonely when they are together or hanging out.

If anyone has any advice please help a newly poly guy.