So I've been with my primary partner for 5 years, we were doing an open relationship dont ask dont tell thing for a while but we opened up our relationship further to romantic partners and actual Polyamory. Most of the people I meet online just want to fuck and leave but I found someone recently that's different. We have been seeing eachother for 3 weeks and have amazing chemistry, we have a lot in common, we laugh together until our cheeks hurt, I think I'm falling for him but I don't want to scare him away by being too clingy too soon or neglect my primary partner. How do I calm myself down? Hes all I think about I feel like I'm a little obsessed, I need to get control of myself.