Ok so me and my wife have been together for 11 years (married 5yrs) all throughout our relationship, we have always kinda picked about having a second woman, in the aspect that I would have someone else to hang out with or give attention to. Specifically only for me, like she wouldn't really be involved.Not necessarily sexually, though she is adamant if I did she wouldn't care. I'm the same way toward her, (like if she wanted to she could have another man around , sexually or not)though she says she isn't interested at all with being with another man. To be honest I don't even know if I'm explaining this clearly. Feel free to ask me questions. But I'm trying to figure out if this is poly, would be just a friend with benefits,ect . does this actually occur, any more advice ?