How do I navigate feeling concerns for my partner's safety. So currently my partner is on a date with someone they might pursue. We have talked extensively about everything we expect from one another and one of the things that was brought up is not too totally ignoring each other if we are on a date, not to say we expect the each other to be rude to our dates or anything but we don't feel like we can't message each other if something were to come up. Well, I have messaged my partner something that was important(im going through some stuff unrelated to this and I needed to vent) and I didn't get a response which is okay, but now it's been a while and she hasn't responded. My partner mentioned she was going to pick up her date and go do some errands. My concern is they are still at the other person's house and I have feelings of concern. But I also don't want to be overprotective, overbearing or my intentions to be misconstrued.