I 23 F and dating a 24F at my law school who is poly ( a very tragic situation happened in her life and she wants to explore poly but has never done it before). She told me from week 1 that she was poly. We have been seeing each other a lot for the last month and a half. My feelings for her continue to grow and I don't think I would be able to handle it if she began dating someone else while dating me. I want to talk to her about our boundaries and how to deal with the situation. She told me she'll tell me if she starts seeing someone else which I appreciate but I feel like I just keep thinking about when she will start seeing someone than just focusing on the now. But when I focus on the now I know its just for now then I might get hurt once she starts seeing another. I really don't want to start seeing someone else she's the healthiest and kindest person I've ever been with and I don't want to lose her this soon because were so alike and are really good friends on top of being together. idk if I should just end it now to keep myself from feeling hurtin the future or I should continue with her then once she starts seeing another I end things ughhhhh idk advice pls
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