Hello, I'm a 24 year old bi woman and want to be polyamorous. I read a lot of theory on dismantling compulsive monogamy and hierarchical relationships, compersion, etc. but have never practiced being poly or have close friends in polyamorous relationships. Since I broke up with my long term partner recently I don't want to jump into new relationships so soon, but I would like some guidance in how I can slowly build up confidence in possibly dating people in non monogamy. What does healthy polyamory look like? What are some common mistakes that beginners can make that I should avoid? When I meet new people should I already think of them romantically or should I meet someone I love spending time with and discuss boundaries and how intimate we want things to go? Any resources that will be helpful for me in my journey? Thank you for any advice.