My lesbian wife F/30 has told me she is in love with her best friend M/29 and wants an intimate sexual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with him. She also told me that she is still in love with me F/ 28 and doesn’t want to lose me or our marriage. We have been together 6 years and married for 4. We have always had a healthy sexual relationship. Can someone love twp people? How do I be okay with this? I have never slept with a man but she has. Is it that she just want sex? She admits she has been in love either him for the better part of year. Is emotional connections cheating? I’m really struggling? I feel like I have to find a way to be okay with this new lifestyle she wants to have her in any way that she will allow me too. Am I wrong for wanting to leave her because I don’t know if I can find a way to be okay with what she wants?