So my husband and I have had a polyamorous relationship since September, 2022, and it's been a very hard road. I am the monogamous one, because I don't want to have multiple partners, while my husband is the polyamorous one. Originally we did this because he felt like he wasn't able to get enough physical affection from me such as sex and cuddling. Just so everyone knows I enjoy sex, but I believe I'm more on the asexual spectrum. I can go months without needing or wanting sex, which posed an issue. My husband is very affectionate and caring, only recently have I started adjusting to this lifestyle. He has reassured me that he will never leave me for anyone, and I believe him, because there was an instance with one of his partners where he accidently got her pregnant, and I thought he might leave me for her. He dumped her though, and is paying child support, but that is all for their communication. Now, he has two partners, but they are both happily married, and I feel more at ease. I think going forward won't be as hard.