Hi, i Need some advice because i can't understand if what i am living rn Is toxic or not. I've been with a girl for a few months, before making it official I asked her if she was hierarchical or not because a hierarchical relationship wouldn't have suited me, she assured me that it wasn't. since we got together every time we have some plan or I ask her to see us she always leaves the last word to the other partner while when she has plans with her I don't have to dare to interfere,last week we were supposed to spend time alone because his other partner would have been out on business , the trip was canceled and she asked me to spend much less time together than what we had already organized.plus these months some trips that we were supposed to take together were missed, even though I had already booked everything, because at the last minute her other partner asked her for time together,It seems to me that the relationship is hierarchical but every time I ask her she denies it, is this normal?