My LD partner of almost a year went out with a new person last night (they specified it was not a date, but this is irrelevant). This is the first time they've hung out since meeting randomly while my partner was driving for Uber. The last text I received from my partner during the day was at 5:30pm-ish, and I didn't hear from them again until after 2am, then not again until 10am. Life360 shows they didn't get home until 5am.

What I'm asking is if it's inappropriate or an overreach to request more frequent check-ins during outings, especially when its a person they don't know very well? My partner is a smol femme-presenting NB person and while I'm fully confident they can protect themselves, I also was having such bad anxiety that I couldn't sleep until I saw they made it home safe on Life360.

So would it be too much for my own peace of mind to ask for more check-ins?