For context I have dated s and j (married to each other) for a little over a year now and we all three live together. I feel like things just aren’t going well. I recently started having another partner outside of our triad and it’s been rough. J is also not home on a work trip. I feel bad making any big decisions or change with j gone but this aren’t right either. I feel like we’re just coming it a point where we see we want different things and view relationships differently. I don’t want to feel like I’m giving up tho either. Like if I just try harder it could work if I give it time kinda feeling. I’m not sure I guess just feel stuck and am looking for advice. Obviously there’s more to it but so much background that isn’t worth it unless someone actually wanted to listen and help seriously.