A little click bate my apologies. Me and my wife have a complex relationship and I don't know what comunity we fit into. We don't identify as swingers because we never did a swap or had a partner in a married relationship and the whole swinger lifestyle just doesn't seem like our scene. Me and my wife been together for 5 years she was 20 and I was 25. I own a consultation business and I make a decent amount of money enough money that most people could retire with my yearly salary I pay my self. I've never felt the need to be with another woman and my wife says she doesn't feel the need to be with another man, however she admits to me sometimes she catches feeling for her coworkers (female). the way she explains it is that she feels like she's in highschool where she crushes on people all the time. That being said I'm not intimidated by the idea of my wife having a relationship with another woman that being said, she started to explore the idea of dating women so she's downloaded dating apps to start seeing women. This started happening 2 years into our marriage.

Occasionally she would tell me about her dates and this is where things started to change in our relationship. I never once felt like I needed to be with nobody else this is my soulmate and she's perfect to me in everyway, but when she started to tell me about her dates I have feelings I never thought I would have! I felt so happy I felt in love when she felt in love I felt excited when she tells me about her intimet events. like how they had their first kiss or had sex it's like I was living it with her.

This is the part I'm confused about. One day she brought home someone she was seeing and we had a threesome it didn't go as planned. It felt wrong to me and I couldnt get my equipment to work but eventually we started doing it more and I start to enjoy it a little bit but I don't fantasise about it. I do like to watch her with other women a lot but I have no attraction to other women or feelings but I can definitely tell when a woman is gorgous. Eventually she had a girlfriend and I love seeing them together do their daily routine and couples stuff witch I pay for completely. I do jjack off while they have sex and I'll have sex with my wife while they do the deed it's not that her girlfriend don't mind me having sex with her she confess to my wife that she finds me very attractive and she loves the fact that I take care of them both and I do have sex with her sometimes as my wife enjoys watching me but very rarely.

So what I want to know is what would I label my relationship status as when my wife dates outside of our relationship but I'm only attracted and Inlove with her and I dont date outside my marriage or persue other relationships, but I get happiness from my wife being able to pursue other people.(Another side note our day to day life we spend a lot of time with each other and we are happy couple even when she is only with me)