What to do…

I am going to go straight to the point… I am happy to provide background information if it seems needed to gain perspective.. I am in currently in a triad… our hinge is the only one that currently either “Alexa” or I sleep without the other.. (The hinge-“Emma” has been with Alexa 25 years and she and I have been together solidly for 2 years; our history goes back 9 years) I feel ok- want it this way- and have my needs meet when all 3 of us are together. I would like to hear feed back on this. I feel like it’s an issue that I don’t need or necessarily want to have one to one sex with Alexa.. The triad situation is a recent development- 2 months. Trying to figure some things out. 🫤