I have been in a poly relationship for about a year. It is my first poly relationship but I have dated others during the year of this relationship. I am single, my partner is married. I have read all the books, I have explored so much about this. When I picture a future, poly seems to be the direction that picture goes in. However, I'm having some big challenges with the relationship I'm in. I can't tell if it's me, poly, or if my partner just has some really not cool qualities and I'm telling myself that it's normal because it's poly. I feel like there is so much about couples becoming poly, but I struggle with being single and becoming poly...there are so many positives, but some challenges for sure. I was talking with my therapist, who does not have experience with polyamory. She recommended I find a poly mentor. It was said with a giggle from us both, but now I'm stuck on the idea. If anyone might be willing to chat with me, I'd be so grateful. Don't be a perv though, find me on a different page for that. I just need help and support right now 😘