Needing advice What to do when your primary partner is showing so much more interest in a couple than to her own partner. I've tried to understand and work through this. Even seeking therapy for my own issues, but I still feel that my partner is not giving me the same attention. I'm trying my best but when I voice my opinion I get told that I'm not taking into consideration what they are doing. The fact that others are even noticing it in our family and my partner just keeps saying that they are focusing on themselves and this new version of themselves. I am just at my wits end. We talk about this everyday and I'm just about to go numb and focus on family and let them see what they are losing out on. Please need solid advice before anything worse happens between us or their family.
It sounds like the amount of time and attention your partner is willing to offer you has changed significantly.
Are you new to polyamory?
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Be like what? You will have less time and energy for each other if you have other partners. Its kind of unclear here what she is doing that bothers you. Do you make intentional focused date/plans with each other?