Looking for some other peoples point of view on how to handle this.

Hubby & I (married 10 yrs) recently opened our marriage to a throuple relationship which we are very happy with how it’s going. We met an awesome chick we both mesh with and she seems to like us both equally. It helps that her and I are both new to exploring our sexuality.

Here’s where we need some other people’s point of views / advice: When she finishes she makes a mess… and not a good one you want her to make. Now this has happened on 3 different occasions from 3 different ways.. the first time we were all intimate this didn’t happen.

We aren’t sure how to talk to her without her feeling like she is being attacked or that we are teaming up on her because that’s not what it is at all. We want to help her with this, but it’s becoming a big turn off for us sexual and I’m not sure I can continue if this is going to happen every time.

We are thinking maybe she doesn’t know but after last night there was no way not to know what she did.