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My girlfriend and I have been in an amazing relationship for 5 years, we have solid trust and care for each other. We have had a very healthy relationship over the past few years. The idea of including a third has floated into our minds as a possibility.
As of the past 6 months or so we have been spending lots of time with a mutual friend (20f). The time we spend together has grown to be more intimate. We spend time solely the 3 of us and all find it mutually enjoyable, going out together on things that would traditionally be considered dates, like the spa/aquarium/zoo/etc.
As a person I would say I consider myself monogamous, and havenโt really considered the idea of a polyamorous relationship (throuple ig would be the more appropriate term?). The interest in this has naturally come about over time spent together. As we are now, the 3 of us are very close. For context as well, my gf does not really care and just goes with the flow.
As for me and the friend, we are good on a 1on1 basis, and have been physically close and have great banter together. My gf and her are also extremely close friends.
The possibility of a throuple is on the table and I am curious about what I can or should do. My gf and I have spoken about it and are open to the idea if it comes to fruition. Was wanting to get advice on what to do in this situation, the possibility and interest is there but I do not want to muddy any friendships or make any party uncomfortable. What steps should I take?
tl;dr Possibility of opening relationship to be a throuple with mutual friend. What should be done by me?
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