M(27) Partner is F(26). I'm having a little bit of a crisis atm I just need someone to talk to about some poly stuff. It'd be nice to hear from a womans perspective, but yea, idk just someone. It's a little long-winded and has to do with some sex stuff, so sorry for the crude language.

So, my partner of four years and i recently started exploring polyamory in the last 8 months or so. We've each had a couple of dates and tonight she went out for awhile with a guy, im assuming they had sex, and when she came home we also had sex (she had said she wanted to when she got back). But i suspect that it may have been just to appease me because i struggle with jealousy issues pretty bad. So anyway, when we had sex she was just....really dry, and d seemed like she was really sensitive, which happens from time to time. I had asked her to do some foreplay stuff to me, but she just kind of played around and didn't do what i asked. again, it is also not super irregular because she's a bit of a pillow princess. But i couldn't end up finishing because she was just so dry, and sometimes i have trouble finishing as it is. But immediately after, i couldn't escape the thought of like.....i bet she jerked HIM off, and i bet she wasn't super dry for HIM. I know its probly just me being in my head but im just fucking really struggling. I got kind of quiet after it also and i think she could tell i was upset because she sighed a bit and just went to bed without saying anything.