I’m currently going through a lot in my life atm, and still making time to see partners and friends and tend to things. However, I’m feeling incredibly unsupported by basically all my partners. None of them live with me (I live alone, not by choice) but they know my situation, currently working on moving, and have listened while I break over and over again at the sheer amount of stress I’m under. I literally told them that I felt like I was not a priority in anyone’s life and while they can all assure me they love me and care about me, and I mean a lot to them, they’re also not trying to help or support me really. I feel like I make each of them a priority and just don’t have that in return. I get they all have their own households and things but none of them are going through such a big and stressful situation right now but it feels like they’re like “sorry you have to deal with this, good luck.” I know they don’t owe me their help but how do you sit back and watch someone you love loose it over what they’re dealing with and not??? A lot of this is venting but really living alone and dealing with life alone when it isn’t by choice is crappy, but having 4 partners who just kind of disappear for the weeks of insane stress just feels defeating.