Context So about a few months ago I met this dude, we are both trans and theres not many trans people around here so we instantly connected I guess, one day we were talking and we found out we were both somehow not only trans, but we were both adopted by our great aunts and we both have almost the same traumas and stuff we went through, I feel like almost soul bonded to this dude if that make sense even though it hasn't been that long ???? He has a wife, and I often get jealous about them. He tries to focus his attention on me when I'm over but it drives me insane knowing that my Bae is kissing someone else when im gone 😭😭 I don't wanna give up on this relationship because I truly do love this guy so I really wanna be at my best, any tips? If there are any lol, I'm still not quite sure how this all fully works