One of those questions that isn't necessarily poly, but maybe more likely to come up amongst poly people...

Let's say you're considering taking a plane to see a potential fwb . This is someone you don't know super well but you have met in person before*, they've indicated they're quite attracted to you and you know there's at least some chemistry. But nothing is guaranteed of course. How long would you want to stay?

Then... would it change the length of time if they're on another continent and it'll cost between $1,000-2,000 to see them? (A hotel room would be involved for a little private space. And I live in a country/city/coast that is expensive to travel from.)

Any other tips?

Bit nervewracking... but he is rather lovely...

*also have been in the same social community network for awhile so the fact that you haven't heard of any red flags through the grapevine does mean something...