First off: I haven’t been on a date with someone for almost 2 years. (Due to a break up) working on myself becoming a better me. But while I was in that realtionship I realized that as much as I loved my ex that there was something’s that she couldn’t give me and things I couldn’t give her. Which is the reason I started doing research and found out about poly. After the break up I came to the discovery that I am demisexual and poly. this upcoming Saturday I will be going on a first date with what I have discovered. I’m curious as to when is it appropriate/ a good time to bring it up. This woman that I will be going on a date with we are very compatible and haven’t been this compatible with someone ever. But I also don’t want to lead someone on. I’m not sure if she is monogamous or not. But also how do you bring something like this up? When is it appropriate?