I'm fairly new to the game, and would love your opinion on whether I'm a total fish or an unlucky fish:

Playing 1/2 at the empire in London. My stack is 200.

I'm in the big blind, and action reaches me with 2 limpers - UTG 1 and SB. I look and see 2 red Queens. I raise to 12, UTG 1 and SB both call.

UTG 1 is a longtime friend. He plays very loose, very passive and will chase a flush draw to the death. SB is a stranger. I've only been at the table for 3 orbits, and this is the third hand he played.

Flop (36 in the pot): KsQc9s I bet 25. My friend calls. SB raises to 75. I call. My friend calls. Turn (251 in the pot): 6h. SB open jams, and he covers us both. I call, my friend calls.

River is 3h.

My friend shows pocket 9s for the lower set. I have the set of queen's, and SB shows TJo for the straight.

Was I a complete fish, or just massively coolered?