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What are some (non-BBC) stereotypes in the lifestyle that also have a negative impact on POC?
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BBC is a commonly identified stereotype brought on by porn thats affected the perception of black men sexually to the point that average is considered small for example. Piggy backing off this week's earlier discussion, what are some other stereotypes youve had to deal with as a POC that negatively impacted your ability to meet people in the lifestyle?
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Just speaking of our own experience, Asian women get stereotyped/fetishized just as much, especially with assumption of them being "submissive, small, tight, etc.".
There's a popular porn website we refuse to watch that stereotypes Asian women from south east Asia for this very reason.
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Yeah that's a great point, the subs/race play commentary about Asian men is not cute.
This is the male half speaking and my feeling on the BBC issue has always been I won't police other black men who decide to use the term/engage in race play but if a non-black couple randomly hits us up asking about "BBC" or otherwise being very fetishy it's gonna be a no from us.
When we first started we got it so much I thought that's just how the lifestyle was. Took a few months to find a couple and a single woman respectively who were good on that front. In the end it worked out but was a real bummer at the start.