Me and my wife love playing the game, but it seems like all we do if gather resources, build a nice house, get raided, maybe kill a couple people and farm zombies. We would really like to join up with a few others and really get into the the idea of "We own this land, trespassers will be shot" idea so that our nodes are just for us and also so that we can gear up and maybe wage a little war with some others on a server. We would like to find a server with mods (door sharing so we don't have to build a lot of extra) but anything with decent ping is fine with us.

Also, I'm looking at getting into letsplays so this would be on Youtube/twitch at some point. (In case that deters some)

-EDIT- We are located in the US (Central) just in case someone needs to know.