We don’t have these kinda places where I’m from, so super confused about what to expect and would appreciate any tips or a walkthrough on how things go. Is it possible to just show up and chill in a sauna or something while I get comfortable?

Some context: I’m an early 30s bear/chub, bit insecure over my weight/hair and socially shy in general. Should I just wait for bears night or would there be guys into me on a regular evening? I myself love older guys who seem to be the main demographic according to some posts here.

Also, how accepted are kinks there? Would love to receive a golden shower or be dominated in other ways while I’m there.

Basically happy to receive any tips, thanks a lot!!