Potential TW: Date rape or date-rape (though this is anti-date rape)

I made two alternate versions (one M4F, one M4A) of an M4F erotic audio I made where we're at the end of our first date, really like each other and start making out. The audio was already very safe, gentle and focused on consent, but a listener requested a version where the listener gets a little overwhelmed and wants to stop. This is a really important subject, so I wanted to make this version.

It is sadly an all-too-common occurrence that during physical affection or sex, one partner will feel uncomfortable and want to stop, but their partner either doesn't notice or doesn't care. That's absolutely unacceptable and is rape. I wanted to make an audio where we're kissing and having a good time, but you start to feel overwhelmed. I recognise something's wrong, check in on you and we instantly stop.

I reassure you that it's absolutely okay, I'm not upset or mad, in fact I really appreciate you telling me. I don't want to do anything you aren't comfortable with. We can wait, take it slow and go at our own pace, whether that's two hours from now or two months. I tell you how much I value your safety, comfort and trust, and that no desire or temporary good feeling is worth more than that. Just because we were having fun doesn't mean we have to keep going or that there's any expectation of anything more than that.

I ask if we can just cuddle, and explain that I don't want sex, I want you. I want to spend time with you in whatever way you want to, and that cuddling sounds just perfect right now. We snuggle up together, put in another movie, and the audio fades out.

You can listen to the M4A version here or the M4F version (which is slightly longer and has some gendered references) here

I hope that you enjoy this audio and that it might help you to heal a little if you've been hurt before. I'd love to hear what this audio meant to you, either in a comment or private message. If you'd like to hear more of my audios, you can do so at my subreddit /r/msa_andeh.