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Hi, I see all these posts saying its impossible to get out of the friendzone and if you let yourself get put there, then there is no escape. However I disagree based on what I in life and when I talk to people, the way out of the friendzone is to stop acting like a girls friend. Everyone knows a bad first impression is hard to overcome, but the impression she has of you is not bad it's just not aligned right (tbf I am phrasing this poorly), just switch it start treating her like any other girl you are trying to game. The girl can't see you as a friend if you don't act like one. Be flirty, have strong frame, physically escalate, most of all don't wait around for her etc.. Sorry for the rant but today I have seen too much defeatist shit about the friendzone from men who are realistically in the simp zone, they are being too agreeable to her and are being friends whilst wanting more without actually going for her.
I have heard a rule of if it doesn't happen in the first two months you blew it; how often are you seeing this girl and how much time are you spending with her? Because three months seeing her all day at work is different to three months of seeing her for 10 minutes while you walk your dog or occasionally seeing her in a bar or meeting her by chance then 3 months later seeing her again.
To conclude if you want to get out of the friendzone just act like you want to be more than friends, but remember sometimes it just wasn't going to happen and most importantly go for other women!
PS- I feel like I should say this whilst I am friends with a lot of women so I have seen/heard this in action so many times, however I have not ever become friends with a girl I am trying to sleep with so I can't speak from personal first hand experience.
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