Hey there,

I’ll be honest—I’m in a tough spot right now. I’m stuck in a relationship that’s been dragging me down for years. We’re not married, we don’t have kids, but we’ve been together a long time. The truth? She treats me terribly—constantly yelling, insulting me, and trying to tear down my confidence. Every day, she tells me I’m not a real man and that she can do better.

And if that wasn’t enough, she had a 3-year affair—looked me right in the eyes and lied about it until the other guy’s girlfriend caught them and exposed the truth. Now, instead of sneaking around, she flat-out tells me she’s “going on a date” like it doesn’t count as cheating if she warns me first.

She’s Filipina but born in the U.S., and last year, we visited the Philippines together. That trip was eye-opening. I fell in love—with the culture, the people, and yes, the women. Filipinas are absolutely stunning, and I realized how warm and kind life could be. It hit me: I’m wasting my time with someone who doesn’t care about me, my feelings, or even my well-being.

For years, I supported her—paid for her rent, food, gave her a car, and cooked her meals (I can cook Filipino food, by the way). She never worked, never helped out, and still managed to cheat the entire time. Honestly, I’m drained. But I’m not giving up on love—I just want to take my time finding someone who’s truly special.

Here’s what I’m looking for: I want a woman who’s sweet and soft-hearted—someone who’s as serious about real love as I am. I’d love to meet someone who’s got goals, whether it’s being career-focused or dreaming of building a beautiful life together.

I’m the type of man who loves to plan—whether it’s budgeting, building a home, starting a family, or dreaming about our next vacation. I want a best friend who talks to me every day, someone I can trust with my whole heart.

At the same time, I want someone who can be classy when she’s by my side at work events, but also adventurous enough to join me for sports or outdoor activities. And let’s be real—physical chemistry is important too. I’ve got a high sex drive and want someone who’s playful and fun in the bedroom.

If this sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me a message, tell me why you think we’d click, and don’t forget to share a photo—I’d love to put a face to your story.

Looking forward to meeting someone amazing.