Before the year ends, I am hoping to meet someone like-minded and someone who wants the same thing. It's important to point out that it is so hard to find that person here who genuinely wants to connect and be consistent. Not to mention the amount of sexual posts makes it harder for people who have intentions beyond the "kantot kalimot" and to "scratch the itch". I certainly am not desperate but let's be honest WE all long for that kind of person even those in their "hoe phases". I know we have to lower our expectations since this is Reddit but how many talking stages do we really have to go thru before something hits right? Dba? For some onti lang mahahanap na nila pero sa iba antagal. Tapos even if it hits right, most of the time it doesn't work out. The effort slowly dwindles and poof they're gone. Frustrating. Fate isn't the one to blame 'cause we are all accountable for our actions. Dami reasons why nagfafail ang talking stages pero our actions inspite of external circumstances are what makes things work out or not.

So what am I looking for? A connection built on friendship, understanding, support, fun, and growth. I know it's a long shot but there's no harm in trying and I don't want to lower my standards so I'll keep searching. If you are looking for the same thing, let's try.

What kind of woman am I looking for? Here are my preferences :

• ages 25 and up
• from Metro Manila (better if from North of MM but I don't mind if you're from South as long as you are willing to travel)
• someone compassionate and nurturing
• has a good sense of humor and not a killjoy
• has faith in God
• nerdy-smart-weird type
• nice shape and not out of shape
• matino kausap

Who am I? I am so much more than what I write so you have to get to know me. But here are some of my characteristics :

• introverted but talkative and playful when I get comfortable
• daddy-kuya vibes
• supportive and encouraging
• fitness and life coach
• into self-help books
• can sing
• authentic and unique
• main love language is quality time and touch but am able to do all

My inbox is open to those who :

• read my post until the end and understood it
• values time so we you won't waste mine and yours
• seriously wants to make this work
• won't message me with a hi/hello and would show some personality in her message