You say you want intimacy, friendship, fun, laughter, excitement, care, love... but are you able to give those too to another person? Some people demand so much but give too little. That's not true equality, that's entitlement. True equality is having 100-100 effort in providing what is wanted and needed. If there is an imbalance of the exchange of energy, it's not worth pursuing because we want to give our time, energy, emotion, heart to people who reflect back the energy that we put out. If it doesn't match, they're not the kind of people you want in your life. Trying to make them like you is you abandoning yourself so others would validate you. The only validation we need is from ourselves. You are worthy as fuck (given that you are loving yourself the right way). You don't have to please someone that has the same vibration as you because the attraction is effortless and the feeling is mutual. We attract the kind of people who have the same energy we have so if we want to attract real, fun, interesting, adventurous, smart people, be that person first and then you'll create long-lasting bonds with the people you want to attract into your life.
I'm open to talk and maybe be friends and go on dates. Let's see if we vibe. I'm more on substance over looks but looks are still a factor for me definitely. I like someone who looks nice and presentable. What really catches my attention is personality, sense of humor, and wit. I don't care if you have a very smooth face, have a nice butt, have a high income or if you're from the big 4. I look at who you are inside. ;)
If this got you interested, don't be shy to say Hi. It's 2023 ladies, no more low-effort messages. Just be you. ;)
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