Came from an on-off relationship. I did everything I could. Went out of my way to cater to her needs. Sometimes, I even neglected my own.
I know, it was my mistake. Over and over again, we had the same issues. But we would talk about it and then be okay. But not much really changed.
And when I asked her if I was not worth having my needs met (not just sexually), she explained that it was hard for her.
I just wanted her to show up in a way I needed too. I guess I was not worth it for her. But I know, someone will value me. The way I needed.
It sucks because I kept thinking, if I do this and that, if I do more for her, she would probably value me more. I was wrong.
Almost 2 years of my life.
Now, I just want people to take me accountable. To value myself more, the way I value other people.
LF: - Anyone - Basta wholesome. Not looking for someone special. - Wants to get over someone/breakup (optional) - Willing to meet once a month or twice a month (I just want to make new friends)
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