Hi! My goal for next year is to learn more about myself and what makes me happy. Starting with understanding my love Languages.
For context: I only found about love languages when my ex broke up with me. Sabi niya Act of Service daw ako.
Upon learning more about it, it can be divided into two parts:
Giving and Receiving
Giving - meaning this is how you give love
Receiving - meaning this is how you want to receive love
Now I understand my giving love language is Act of Service but I don't know what my receiving is. Siguro kasi being someone who always gives and not asking anything in return parang I forgot to think about what I want for myself. Kaya in the end, I have an uncomfortable feeling when someone gives something to me. For others, they would be happy about it pero for me, parang nahihirapan ako iaccept without feeling of uneasiness.
How did you found out about your love language both giving and receiving?
Sa mga tao na katulad ko who's having a hard time receiving or accepting love from someone, how did you become okay with it and ano yung way niyo to find your receiving love language?
DM niyo ako if you want to kwento. Please don't say Hi lang. DM your answer to the question and usap lang tayo. Thank you.
PS I'll try my best to reply, minsan wala kasi akong energy to reply back. Sorry in advance if hindi ako nakareply back.
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