Seriously, uso pa din pala yan? 🤣 new to reddit here…nag chat with someone and exchanged photos, we clicked naman sa chat. Decided to meet for dinner.. 🥁 💀 and then nag dadalawang isip ako whether to approach the girl or not kasi, she was there at the meeting place but she was not remotely close-looking to the girl in the photo she sent. Sige, lets call it out-dated, filtered photo. Pero you get my point. Ok lang sakin na medj chubby, but she said she wasn’t. So like i then realized na ‘ah parang 1-2 yrs ago ata yung picture na sinend nya’. No judgement for chubby girls (needless to say that bc im also chubby), pero naman…why not be open about it.
Btw sabi rin ni chat gpt : “While not all instances of using an old photo constitute catfishing, if the intent was to mislead you about their appearance or identity, it may align with that behavior”
So ayun, tinuloy ko pa rin naman yung dinner. Pero yung planned “desert” with her ay.. 👋🏼 btw did not bring it up with her out of respect and courtesy. I just wish I would be extended the same courtesy of being upfront and honest.
Tbh, di naman ako mag nega comment if she didnt want to disappoint regarding her weight, pero lalo lang akong na disappoint bc i felt parang deceived. Anw, enough storytime. Hope doesn’t happen to you gals din.
Be yourself. Love yourself. You’ll be able to give more love to others and they will love the real you without hesitations. Peace! ✌🏼 ☮️
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