Hi!

The title seems unrelated but I can't think of a witty one.

Originally, I was planning to look for a friend I could potentially and harmlessly flirt with. However, now I want an all-out landi, perhaps laced with friendship (what). Let's see if we can cross the two-week threshold most people are afraid to talk about, and decide from there.

If you understand the concept of investment and know that there are risks to everything, including this type of arrangement, then you should read further. I hope you and I can come to an understanding that it may not work out in the end, and one of us might ghost the other.

About me:

1. I am romantically and sexually attracted to women, but intellectually, I go beyond sexual orientation. 
2. My gender expression leans toward the softer side of masculine. My hair is short and wavy enough to confuse people, and I still get called "Ma'am." I dress for comfort, but a friend once told me I'm too plain and utilitarian—except when my buttons are undone. 
3. I'm not very confident in my looks, but I'm confident in what I can offer when I'm interested. Women often call me cute, and I've been told many times that I was someone's type. However, I've been ghosted by two women after sending them a picture of myself. 
4. I'm on the shorter side, but I've dated women over 5'5". My BMI is normal, although it's an inaccurate measure. Regardless, my organs function well, my bone density is fine, and my doctor told me I would live a long life, which I don’t fully believe. 
5. I get easily intimidated by women, so forgive me if I sound like a total idiot most of the time—it only means I'm attracted to you.
6. I do not always speak like this, so please do not be intimidated, I'm not always uptight and intense.

About you:

1. Femme to hyper-femme; proud to show her masculine side from time to time. (We can discuss the merits of this situation in our inboxes if you'd like). 
2. Someone who grew up speaking both English and Tagalog. If you're multilingual, that's even better. 
3. A reader and movie enthusiast who’s unafraid but a little shy to talk about the smallest details she finds fascinating. I would be honored to describe how you light up when you do. 
4. Potentially spoiled and bratty but hella submissive and likes being called "baby." 
5. Stubborn but cries easily. Basically, a girl who knows she’s strong, willful, and independent but craves comfort, gentleness, and intimacy from time to time. 
6. Someone who would burst my inflated ego every so often and tell me I'm wrong when I am.
7. I have no strict age requirement (just be over 19) as I’m exploring, but I'd appreciate it a little more if you're 20 . 

I'm open to both SFW and NSFW conversations, but I'd like it if you know how to balance in between.

Lastly, I’d prefer not to exchange photos for at least 24-48 hours to avoid certain biases. However, I can’t promise I won’t be a bit shallow—I'm still human, and I am biologically wired to be attracted to beautiful faces. This time allows us to get to know each other and digest personalities first.

I apologize for the long post. I appreciate you taking the time to read it and if that sounds like a good deal to you, send me a message and let’s see where it leads us. Perhaps, you can start by telling me what makes you feel okay these days or whatever you think is appropriate.

I'll see you in my DMs. :)