Does it really happen for someone like me? I know dating in general is tough these days for everyone who is searching. But I think being trans, there's an added layer to how its more difficult. Plus, I'm a trans female who dont pass. Di ako Lars Pacheco levels or Fuchsia Ravena. I am more Fiona from Shrek lol. I feel like as a non-passing trans, navigating the dating scene and life in general, its always on advanced difficulty mode. On top of that, aside from being an introvert, i have been single so long that I feel like, I dont even know how to be in a relationship anymore. I've been on solo-flight for many many years that the independence have grown so much inside me. Im also a very complicated person and at my age I still havent figured life out. Hence, sometimes I think no one would want to be in a relationship with me because im such a huge mess. I dont want to burden someone to pick up my pieces for me because I might just hold them back from the better life ahead of them. But then at the same time, at the back of my mind, i hate the loneliness. I envy people who has someone in their life. Will I ever be chosen? Will I ever be good enough? Oh shit these are all just sad ramblings. I'm sorry if I ruined your day. I guess I just want to say these things out loud.
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