Heyo, everyone! This is going to be quite a lengthy read, but I hope you can bear with me as I take you on a journey into my core. So sit back, relax, and have that cup of coffee, tea, or hot coco.

I’ve finally decided to delete Grindr for good (hopefully) because it’s been pretty challenging to find someone genuine there. All I’m really looking for right now is someone to have a good chat with—not much for hookups at this point. So, I thought I’d give this sub a chance instead.

I’m in search of a genuine connection, but it’s important to note that I’m not looking for anything romantic at the moment. I have a lot on my plate right now and don’t want to invest energy into a romantic interest. What I’m really up for is chatting and getting to know some interesting people for when I feel ready to dive deeper into connections—but definitely not anytime soon.

I understand that physicality might matter to some, so here are a few details about me:

• Height: 5’9”
• Ethnicity: Mestizo
• Body Type: Average
• Self-Image: I’d say I’m happy and confident in my looks
• Orientation: Out of the closet, but non-scene
• Sexual position: Verse-bottom/side (if it matters)

As for my interests, here’s a glimpse into what makes my soul resonate:

• Anime and Manga: I love watching anime and diving into manga, manhwa, light novel, and webtoons. Suffice to say, I am a HUGE weeb.
• Music: I’d describe myself as genre-fluid because music serves as my emotional canvas. I enjoy listening to a variety of genres to match whatever mood I’m in. We can even trade playlists.
• Tarot and Zodiac: I have a fascination with tarot and astrology, which adds another layer to my introspective nature.
• Books: I love reading about politics, science, psychology, and military strategy. We can exchange theories and reflections about these books, as well as recommendations.
• Movies and Series: I’m a big fan of sci-fi, action, and fantasy as they really reel in my inner child.
• Conversations: I thrive on deep, introspective discussions about anything that triggers reflection—philosophical musings, scientific and metaphysical theories, religious contemplations, moral dilemmas, current events, analyses of music or shows, OR something that blends all of these together! I have a bit of knowledge about many topics, which helps facilitate engaging conversations. Try me!
• Gaming: Video games are another passion of mine, especially high-fantasy RPGs and mobile shooter games. Perhaps we can even play together!
• Martial Arts: I practice MMA and combat shooting, mostly rooted from my childhood dream of becoming superspy.
• Bouldering: I’ve recently dabbled into bouldering as well. I love solving the puzzles simulating cliffsides of mountains, plus I find it extremely fulfilling too, once I reach the top. If you’re into it, pehaps we can even go together. If you’re interested, I could be the buddy who introduces you to it.
• Cooking: I’ve recently found a new found love for cooking as well. What started out as trying a bunch of Tiktok recipes quickly evolved into looking for hidden gems to cook for my loved ones.

If you vibe with what I’ve shared and have made it through this whole post, I’d love for you to send me a brief introduction so we can keep the ball rolling.

Looking forward to connecting and hopefully seeing some of you in my DMs!